Best Custody & Visitation in New Hampshire — 13 resources

About Custody & Visitation for Women

Custody and visitation cases for women are handled in state and county family courts under each state's 'best interest of the child' standard. Mothers seeking sole, joint, or primary physical custody can use free self-help centers inside most courthouses to file petitions, parenting plans, and modification requests without an attorney. The ABA Commission on Domestic & Sexual Violence and the Women's Law Project track state-by-state custody trends, and organizations like the Battered Mothers Custody Conference advocate where abuse intersects with custody. This directory combines official state court self-help portals, county family law facilitators, women-focused family law firms, and maternal advocacy organizations.

Custody & Visitation in New Hampshire

New Hampshire's Circuit Court Family Division handles all family matters statewide. The Division of Child Support Services operates under DHHS. Manchester, Nashua, Concord, and Dover are the largest cities. 603 Legal Aid and the New Hampshire Coalition Against Domestic and Sexual Violence support women, with a strong self-help website for pro se litigants.

13 Resources

1. New Hampshire Judicial Branch — Family Division Self-Help — Free

New Hampshire Judicial Branch — Family Division Self-Help offers New Hampshire mothers free online tools for custody, parenting time, paternity, and modification matters. Call 855-212-1234 to start intake or ask which services you qualify for. No fee for eligible women, with intake handled confidentially.

855-212-1234 · Statewide Online Resource · Online 24/7 · Visit Website

2. Hillsborough County Family Division — Manchester — Free

Based in Manchester, Hillsborough County Family Division — Manchester supports New Hampshire women navigating custody, parenting time, paternity, and modification matters. Reach the team at 603-669-7410 to schedule a screening. Open Mon-Fri 8am-4pm — confirm by phone before driving in. Free of charge for women meeting income or program eligibility.

603-669-7410 · 35 Spring St, Manchester, NH 03101 · Mon-Fri 8am-4pm · Visit Website

3. New Hampshire Legal Assistance — Family Law — Free

New Hampshire Legal Assistance — Family Law works with women across New Hampshire on custody, parenting time, paternity, and modification matters. Reach the team at 603-668-2900 to schedule a screening. Available Mon-Fri 9am-5pm; the team can answer questions about documents and timing. Free for qualifying New Hampshire mothers and their children.

603-668-2900 · 117 N State St, Concord, NH 03301 · Mon-Fri 9am-5pm · Visit Website

4. NH Bar Association — Lawyer Referral

Based in Concord, NH Bar Association — Lawyer Referral supports New Hampshire women navigating custody, parenting time, paternity, and modification matters. Dial 603-229-0002 for an initial conversation about your situation. Service hours run Mon-Fri 8:30am-5pm; ask about after-hours options if needed. Fees may apply — sliding-scale, insurance, or self-pay options are typically available.

603-229-0002 · 2 Pillsbury St Suite 300, Concord, NH 03301 · Mon-Fri 8:30am-5pm · Visit Website

5. NH 211 — Family Law Referrals — Free

NH 211 — Family Law Referrals is a nationwide resource where New Hampshire women can find custody, parenting time, paternity, and modification matters. Dial 211 from anywhere in New Hampshire for a free routing to local services. Free of charge for women meeting income or program eligibility.

211 · Statewide Service · 24/7 · Visit Website

6. WomensLaw.org — Custody Information — Free

Comprehensive state-by-state custody and visitation legal information specifically for women, written in plain language by attorneys. Access the resource library, directory, and any helpline information directly at the website — no account is typically required. Useful for mothers and families who need vetted, plain-language information on custody petitions, visitation schedules, child support, paternity, and protective orders. Available online 24/7 — free for qualifying women.

Nationwide · Online · Visit Website

7. ABA Family Law Section — Find a Lawyer — Free

American Bar Association family law section with attorney directory, public resources, and custody guidance. Access the resource library, directory, and any helpline information directly at the website — no account is typically required. Useful for mothers and families who need vetted, plain-language information on custody petitions, visitation schedules, child support, paternity, and protective orders. Available online 24/7 — free for qualifying women.

Nationwide · Online · Visit Website

8. Federal Office of Child Support Services — Free

OCSS coordinates state child support and custody enforcement. State agency directory and program information for mothers and families. Access the resource library, directory, and any helpline information directly at the website — no account is typically required. Useful for mothers and families who need vetted, plain-language information on custody petitions, visitation schedules, child support, paternity, and protective orders. Available online 24/7 — free for qualifying women.

Nationwide · Online · Visit Website

9. USA.gov — Child Custody and Support — Free

Official federal portal for custody and support information with links to every state agency for mothers and families. Access the resource library, directory, and any helpline information directly at the website — no account is typically required. Useful for mothers and families who need vetted, plain-language information on custody petitions, visitation schedules, child support, paternity, and protective orders. Available online 24/7 — free for qualifying women.

Nationwide · Online · Visit Website

10. ChildWelfare.gov — Custody Resources — Free

Federal child welfare information gateway. Custody, kinship care, and parenting plan guidance for mothers and families. Access the resource library, directory, and any helpline information directly at the website — no account is typically required. Useful for mothers and families who need vetted, plain-language information on custody petitions, visitation schedules, child support, paternity, and protective orders. Available online 24/7 — free for qualifying women.

Nationwide · Online · Visit Website

11. National Council of Juvenile & Family Court Judges — Free

NCJFCJ — research, training, and resources on family court including custody best practices. Access the resource library, directory, and any helpline information directly at the website — no account is typically required. Useful for mothers and families who need vetted, plain-language information on custody petitions, visitation schedules, child support, paternity, and protective orders. Available online 24/7 — free for qualifying women.

Nationwide · Online · Visit Website

12. Cornell Legal Information Institute — Family Law — Free

Free legal reference on custody, visitation, and family law from Cornell Law School. Access the resource library, directory, and any helpline information directly at the website — no account is typically required. Useful for mothers and families who need vetted, plain-language information on custody petitions, visitation schedules, child support, paternity, and protective orders. Available online 24/7 — free for qualifying women.

Nationwide · Online · Visit Website

13. FindLaw — Child Custody — Free

Free public legal information on custody arrangements, modifications, and enforcement for mothers and families. Access the resource library, directory, and any helpline information directly at the website — no account is typically required. Useful for mothers and families who need vetted, plain-language information on custody petitions, visitation schedules, child support, paternity, and protective orders. Available online 24/7 — free for qualifying women.

Nationwide · Online · Visit Website

Frequently Asked

How many custody & visitation resources are in New Hampshire?
Women's Corner tracks 13 custody & visitation resources for women in New Hampshire.
Are custody & visitation resources in New Hampshire free?
12 of the 13 listed custody & visitation resources in New Hampshire are explicitly free or low-cost.
Which cities in New Hampshire have custody & visitation resources?
Listings span cities including Manchester, Concord.
What are some examples of custody & visitation resources in New Hampshire?
Featured entries include New Hampshire Judicial Branch — Family Division Self-Help, Hillsborough County Family Division — Manchester, New Hampshire Legal Assistance — Family Law, NH Bar Association — Lawyer Referral, NH 211 — Family Law Referrals.
Do these listings include phone numbers?
5 of 13 New Hampshire custody & visitation listings include phone numbers.
Do I need a lawyer to file for custody?
No — you can file pro se using forms from your county's Family Court Self-Help Center or Family Law Facilitator at no cost. A lawyer is strongly recommended if your ex is contesting custody, there's a history of abuse, or you need to relocate. Legal aid organizations cover custody cases for income-qualifying mothers.
How does the court decide who gets custody?
Judges apply the 'best interest of the child' standard, weighing each parent's caregiving history, stability, work schedule, the child's bond with each parent, any abuse or substance use, and (for older children) the child's preference. Being the primary caregiver — the parent who handles school, doctor visits, and daily routines — carries significant weight.
What if my ex won't follow the parenting plan?
Document every missed exchange, denied visit, or violation with dates, screenshots, and witnesses, then file a Motion for Contempt or Motion to Enforce with the court that issued your order. Courts can order make-up time, fines, or even change custody for repeated violations. Don't withhold the child in retaliation — that can hurt your case.
Can I get sole custody?
Yes, but courts presume joint custody is best unless you can show the other parent is unfit — documented abuse, untreated addiction, abandonment, or serious mental illness that endangers the child. Bring police reports, medical records, CPS findings, and witness statements. A guardian ad litem may be appointed to investigate.